<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6902370813317501743</id><updated>2011-11-28T07:25:23.212+07:00</updated><category term='shinta'/><category term='arjuna'/><category term='wanita'/><category term='dewasa'/><category term='informasi wanita'/><category term='tips'/><category term='tanaman'/><category term='empati wanita'/><category term='teman dekat'/><category term='hobi wanita'/><category term='memahami wanita'/><category term='pupuk'/><category term='muda belia'/><category term='woman'/><category term='masa'/><category term='keluarga'/><category term='konflik'/><category term='sahabat'/><category term='chosen'/><category term='bunga'/><category term='komunikasi'/><category term='reaksi'/><title type='text'>bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com</title><subtitle type='html'>berikan terbaik yang kami bisa</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>anurjamansyah</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z237/anurjamansyah/fotobesar.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>10</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6902370813317501743.post-7233359011631264447</id><published>2007-06-29T05:52:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-23T12:46:56.716+07:00</updated><title type='text'>Chris Botti To Love Again Smooth Jazz Music CD Review</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;        Chris Botti To Love Again Smooth Jazz Music CD Review&lt;br /&gt;        By Clyde Dennis Dennis&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;        The exceptionally talented Smooth Jazz artist Chris Botti has released his CD entitled To Love Again. I am very confident and happy to announce that I believe Chris Botti fans, and Smooth Jazz fans alike will be &lt;span class="fullpost"&gt; pleased with this one. With the release of To Love Again Chris Botti's artistic excellence is on full display as he has once again delivered a brilliant collection of tracks that could very well be his best work to date.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To Love Again kicks off with a great track, Embraceable You, that I anticipate will be heard on radio stations everywhere, and deservedly so. It really is a very nice track.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the refreshingly nice things about this CD is the way all of the participating artists seem to be really enjoying themselves. Combine that with the overall presentation and you've got one of Chris Botti's most impressive releases ever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Overall To Love Again is an outstanding release. What I call must have music. I give it two thumbs up and is most definitely a worthy addition to any Smooth Jazz collection. Truly an outstanding Smooth Jazz CD. One of those that is completely void of any wasted time, as each track is simply superb.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While this entire CD is really very good some of my favorites are track 2 - What Are You Doing With The Rest Of Your Life?, track 4 - Let There Be Love, and track 11 -  Pennies From Heaven.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My SmoothLee Bonus Pick, and the one that got Sore [...as in "Stuck On REpeat"] is track 12, Here's That Rainy Day. Great track!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To Love Again Release Notes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chris Botti originally released To Love Again on Oct 18, 2005 on the Columbia label.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;CD Track List Follows:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Embraceable You 2. What Are You Doing The Rest Of Your Life? - (with Sting) 3. My One And Only Love - (with Paula Cole) 4. Let There Be Love - (with Michael Buble) 5. What's New? 6. Good Morning Heartache - (with Jill Scott) 7. To Love Again 8. Are You Lonesome Tonight? - (with Paul Buchanan) 9. Lover Man - (with Gladys Knight) 10. I'll Be Seeing You 11. Pennies From Heaven - (with Renee Olstead) 12. Here's That Rainy Day - (with Rosa Passos) 13. Smile - (with Steven Tyler)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Personnel: Chris Botti (trumpet); Billy Childs (piano); Christian McBride (bass instrument); Peter Erskine (drums); Paulinho Da Costa (percussion). Recording information: Capitol Studios, Hollywood, California.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;        Clyde Lee Dennis a life long music enthusiast, writes CD reviews and is also the Automotive Editor at Chicago.eNewsBriefs.com covering topics like Chicago Used Cars and more. Visit Chicago eNewsBriefs for the latest Chicago News&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;        Article Source: http://www.free-articles-zone.com       &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6902370813317501743-7233359011631264447?l=bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/feeds/7233359011631264447/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6902370813317501743&amp;postID=7233359011631264447' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/7233359011631264447'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/7233359011631264447'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/2007/06/chris-botti-to-love-again-smooth-jazz.html' title='Chris Botti To Love Again Smooth Jazz Music CD Review'/><author><name>anurjamansyah</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z237/anurjamansyah/fotobesar.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6902370813317501743.post-8232912935105025203</id><published>2007-06-29T05:51:00.002+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-23T12:47:20.763+07:00</updated><title type='text'>Love Machine</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;        Love Machine&lt;br /&gt;        By Jenn Richards&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;        Let's say you're a great talker. Sexy and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Great kisser. Unpredictable and you're a 'rare to find'. Your love is one of a kind, silly, fun and sweet. You have your own unique sexiness and you're the most caring person every single girl wants to meet. And last but not the least, you're amazing in bed.&lt;span class="fullpost"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Did I say AMAZING IN BED??? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Frankly, if you're doubting yourself then you have a big problem. Whether you’re actually bad in bed or just low on confidence, I can’t say. This is up to you to find out, while I’m just doing some explaining for your convenience. The root of the problem lies in the very simple fact that it takes a lot of experience to know if a woman has an orgasm or if she’s faking it. And even experienced men can’t always tell if the woman’s faking it or not. Bottom line: you can never be sure that your performance is top quality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And that’s even before we take into account slip ups and “that time” when you were too tired or too stressed or you had too much to drink and, well, you know what happened. Unfortunately, these things can erode a man’s peace of mind and confidence and make him suspicious of his lady’s behavior, even if he shouldn’t be. Some times are good and some times are bad and there’s little you can do about it. Loosing confidence in yourself and throwing good self-esteem out the window just because of a slip up is not the way to deal with this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Okay then, put all the blame to stress. Stress is one of the great “sex killers” nowadays because no man can truly enjoy himself if he keeps thinking about deadlines, bosses, nasty co-workers or credit card debt. We do live in a stressful world and the modern fashion that surrounds a man with dozens of machines in order to allow him to work harder and harder everyday is doing it’s best to ruin sex around the world. I’m sure that many men who have to resort to Viagra would do better to try and relax a little and take things easier.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Aside from its direct impact on performance, stress has some side effects that are just as bad. Some men take to drinking because of it. It always starts small, since going out with the guys is fun and, hey, we’re just having a few beers. Before you know it the number of beers grows and the “evenings out” turn into “nights out”. Small wonder that a stressed man with a significant quantity of alcohol in his body is not performing in bed as usual. Men need to recognize the early signs of stress in their lives and take control of the situation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Remember that once you’ve started asking questions about your performance you could easily slide into a pattern where low self esteem triggers a failure, which, in turn, sends self esteem even lower and so on. Try to be a bit more positive about things. You were probably tired or stressed. Or you may need to learn some new positions and break the bedroom routine a bit. If you are keen to get sex right then you need Lovecentria™.  Lovecentria™ contains the very best in video, written and interactive sexual advice to ensure that bedroom faux pas are a thing of the past. For more information please visit www.lovecentria.com and surprise her with a new trick or a fantasy and be the world's greatest love machine.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;        Visit www.MoreNiche.com or&lt;br /&gt;Email MN at support@moreniche.com for more info.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;        Article Source: http://www.free-articles-zone.com       &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6902370813317501743-8232912935105025203?l=bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/feeds/8232912935105025203/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6902370813317501743&amp;postID=8232912935105025203' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/8232912935105025203'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/8232912935105025203'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/2007/06/love-machine.html' title='Love Machine'/><author><name>anurjamansyah</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z237/anurjamansyah/fotobesar.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6902370813317501743.post-6206531122590229689</id><published>2007-06-29T05:51:00.001+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-23T12:47:42.813+07:00</updated><title type='text'>Walter Beasley Ready For Love CD Review</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;        Walter Beasley Ready For Love CD Review&lt;br /&gt;        By Clyde Dennis Dennis&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;        I can describe the latest release from Smooth Jazz sensation Walter Beasley for you with just one word Outstanding!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately, it's not everyday that I get a CD from an artist that I can just pop in and comfortably listen to from beginning to end. There is usually a song or two that I just can't force myself to get through. Not at all the case with Ready For Love. Every track is enjoyable and was pretty easy for me to listen to from start to finish.&lt;span class="fullpost"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ready For Love is a pleasantly varied, mix of 11 tracks that are very well written songs by this clearly superb artist. With many of the songs displaying a lot of the kind emotion that makes for a really great listen. Clearly drawing from what I can only imagine are his own personal experiences. At different points touching on the most real emotions of  love, and the pain of failed relationships can certainly be heard.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Walter Beasley possesses the characteristic of being able to bowl you over with his talent alone. The kind of artist I frankly just flat out enjoy listening to.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Listen to Ready For Love and I believe you'll find there's not much to dis-like about it. The songs are inspired, the production is simply outstanding, and Walter Beasley's horn blowing is clearly in top form. Of particular note on this offering is his amazing rendition of Be Thankful For What You've Got. If you're even mildly into Smooth Jazz music you'll enjoy this CD.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While this entire CD is really very good some of my favorite tracks are track 3 - Be Thankful For What You've Got, track 4 - Ready For Love and track 8 - Land Of The Sun.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My SmoothLee Bonus Pick, and the one that got Sore [...as in "Stuck On REpeat"] is track 6, She Moves Me. What a nice track!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ready For Love Release Notes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Walter Beasley originally released Ready For Love on Jan 23, 2007 on the Heads Up Records label.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;CD Track List Follows:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Free 2. La Nina 3. Be Thankful For What You've Got 4. Ready For Love 5. Rhea's Song 6. She Moves Me 7. Miss You 8. Land Of The Sun 9. Sugar Puddin' 10. Why Not You 11. Willa Mae's Place&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Personnel include: Walter Beasley (vocals, saxophone); Tiffany Davis (vocals); Jeff Lockhart, Rick Walford (guitar); James Lloyd (keyboards, programming); Phil Davis (keyboards); Joel Powell (bass guitar); Lil' John Roberts (drums); David "Pookie" Cole (programming). Recording information: 2006.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;        Clyde Lee Dennis a life long music enthusiast, writes CD reviews and is also the Food Editor at Tulsa.eNewsBriefs.com covering topics like Tulsa Restaurants and more. Visit Tulsa eNewsBriefs for the latest Tulsa News&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;        Article Source: http://www.free-articles-zone.com       &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6902370813317501743-6206531122590229689?l=bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/feeds/6206531122590229689/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6902370813317501743&amp;postID=6206531122590229689' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/6206531122590229689'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/6206531122590229689'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/2007/06/walter-beasley-ready-for-love-cd-review.html' title='Walter Beasley Ready For Love CD Review'/><author><name>anurjamansyah</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z237/anurjamansyah/fotobesar.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6902370813317501743.post-601755904773205181</id><published>2007-06-29T05:49:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-23T12:48:03.032+07:00</updated><title type='text'>Love advice – online psychics</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: justify;"&gt;         Love advice – online psychics&lt;br /&gt;        By Ken Wilson&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;        People have been going to psychics for love advice long before the Internet appeared. They are interested to find out if they are going to encounter true love and if life is going to be the way they are expecting. Today, the Internet is there only to enhance the presence of psychics and help people benefit from healthy, accurate relationship advice.&lt;span class="fullpost"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The truth is that love is one of the most sublime feelings in the whole world and that there are many people who are in search of it. Some of them are desperate that love will pass them by and they prefer to use a psychic’s love advice. Finding out where that special person might be can prove to be really helpful and online specialized websites make sure that every client receives their much-needed relationship advice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are many people who enter online and seek for love advice. They want to know towards which direction their relationship is going, if marriage lies ahead and if they are really living the perfect life. Psychics are there to tell them certain details and offer their guidance. They cannot tell surely what will happen but they can definitely shed some light on some matters.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not many people have the fortune in life to really understand what love is and how deep it can go. There are few happy people in this world and they know how important is to value a good relationship. Psychic’s love advice can bring many benefits into a relationship; they can show where you are wrong, what you can do in order to improve communications skills and how to avoid possible problems. Their online assistance is considered invaluable by some people; their services are required on a daily basis and there are many people willing to pay good money for them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you want to receive expert relationship advice, then the best thing to do is find an esteemed online resource. Consider how crucial it is to receive the love advice you need and how much good it can do for your relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not only the people who are currently in a relationship look for a psychic’s love advice. There are also some persons interested in discovering if they are ever going to find their perfect half. There people are often confused and have the wrong idea that they will end up alone. A psychic can do them very much good, it can boost their confidence and show them that only by thorough searching they will find that significant other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also, there are some people who require such services in order to better understand why they got divorced or separated. They want to know where things went wrong and if there was something they could have done. It is never too late to realize certain possibilities and maybe undue your mistake. A psychic can prove out to be very helpful in such issues and many of them help people to surpass a bad breakup.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As psychics are people that have extraordinary powers, there are many who consider them the only solution to their problems. They come to them for counseling and they want to benefit from their readings. Their advice is very important for people in distress and not only.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For anyone to appeal to a psychic, it is a proof of increased commitment. These are people interested in doing everything they can in order to be happy and we should admire their will power. They want to receive the best advice possible and they know very well that the Internet and certain psychics can offer them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;         We have a wonderful list of psychics ready to provide you with love advice. They can advise you about many things and it is up to you if you consider their proposals. Sometimes, it is a good thing to receive relationship advice, especially from a person with extra-sensorial abilities.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;        Article Source: http://www.free-articles-zone.com       &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6902370813317501743-601755904773205181?l=bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/feeds/601755904773205181/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6902370813317501743&amp;postID=601755904773205181' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/601755904773205181'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/601755904773205181'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/2007/06/love-advice-online-psychics.html' title='Love advice – online psychics'/><author><name>anurjamansyah</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z237/anurjamansyah/fotobesar.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6902370813317501743.post-8004541383026839502</id><published>2007-03-21T06:50:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-23T12:48:25.443+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='chosen'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='woman'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='shinta'/><title type='text'>Tips for arjuna.</title><content type='html'>Tips for arjuna.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Have felt that the shinta stay in intersection to chosen the arjuna or the rahwana looking like arjuna . How she will chosen when existing its fore part  which is shaddow  is same altogether?&lt;span class="fullpost"&gt; &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Woman supposed by a flower-plant which must be taken care of, to be fertilized, to be taken care of, to be sprinkled, and cleared of by gulma. Who want its flower grow beautifully treatment above is standart which must be done. Why standard because treatment like that have not such a public secret and is obliged to again done, then how to get a beautiful flower, good, drawing, healthy and exotik? It is of course treatment extra and special become  him.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Then one moment must shinta feel muzziness as in to the, is which is really which of shinta arjuna? how differentiate her?&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Like mentioned flower, visible by shinta is a existing standart, must there is touch extra and special differentiating it? That'S key how shinta differentiate is which is really arjuna.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;So, can you study a meaning of this story?&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Right, possible this there are your marrow, but, if not yet this is reward for the mu of, woman one moment will experience of which its name of anxiety, is its couple of true to  take a fancy to her/ really? Or whom I which must select;choose among 2 ( peny arjuna.) this?; Is supposed by a natural flower of rain attack or very big wind. Then what is is done by a arjuna?&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Like taking care of mentioned flower there is extra and special which must be done, and that different each other, what is with merewind, reminding about beauty which have been done, with spirit, giving attention that this is life which must be fought for, with support, please express that note u of alone, or I’M u beside always, with basics, giving memory why / what making and arjuna of shinta coalesce.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;That Just, I perhaps of spirit and knowledge little u give its.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6902370813317501743-8004541383026839502?l=bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/feeds/8004541383026839502/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6902370813317501743&amp;postID=8004541383026839502' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/8004541383026839502'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/8004541383026839502'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/2007/03/tips-for-arjuna.html' title='Tips for arjuna.'/><author><name>anurjamansyah</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z237/anurjamansyah/fotobesar.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6902370813317501743.post-4407170292112022841</id><published>2007-03-21T06:44:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-23T12:48:53.393+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='muda belia'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dewasa'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='masa'/><title type='text'>Masa menuju dewasa</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;Masa menuju dewasa&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Part 1 masa muda belia&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ini adalah hidupmu, kamu bebas melakukan apa saja yang kamu mau, hidupmu, kamulah yang akan menentukan. Kemudian timbul pertanyaan apakah benar sebebas itukah hidupmu? Dari kita mempunyai jawaban masing-masing, karena perjalanan hidupmu kita tidaklah sama, aku hanya ingin menceritakan bagimu yang belum pernah mengalaminya, semoga ini menjadi cerminan untuk dijadikan pelajaran dari hidupmu, dan semoga ini menjadi bermanfaat untuk menjadi pembimbing hidupmu di masa depan.&lt;span class="fullpost"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Masa kecil adalah masa bahagia, betul ? kita jika mengingat masa kecil, banyak hal2 yang ingin kita ulangi, disana ada teman kita, teringat kenakalan kita, perlakuan sahabat2 kita, semua akan membuat kita tersenyem, namun memang tidak semuanya seperti itu, ada yang menderita juga, tapi yang aku tekankan disini adalah hal2 massa kecil yang membahagiakan kamu, karena dengan mengingat masa itu, sepersekian detik kita akan merasa bahagia dan tersenyum bukan?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yang pertama, aku yakin pembaca disini adalah yang paling muda adalah umur 12-16 tahun, karena umur segitu sudah bisa akses internet, yang aku namakan muda belia.&lt;br /&gt;Aku teringat masa ini adalah masa dimana kita mengenal orang lain, masa dimana bagaimana berinteraksi dengan teman dari berbagai tempat yang berbeda, masa dimana belajar untuk hormat dan menghormati, masa mengenal lawan jenis dan sebagainya.&lt;br /&gt;Yang aku tekankan disini adalah perilaku pada masa ini, biasanya kita pada masa ini senangnya adalah memilih teman2 tertentu, sampai kadang2 kita membuat geng sendiri, senang main bareng ke tempat tertentu.&lt;br /&gt;Masa sekolah disini, biasanya ada orang yang paling ditakuti di sekolah, walaupun pelajaran mengenal teman ini tidak diajari dan diketahui guru atau kepala sekolah, tapi aku yakin mesti ada saja anak yang sok berkuasa, bukan begitu?&lt;br /&gt;Ada pula pada masa ini anak yang paling pintar, makanya ia paling dihormati dan disayang guru, ada juga anak yang cerewet, bahkan ada yang paling cerewet, biasanya ia ingin disukai teman2 dan memang temannya banyak, tapi tetap saja banyak yang tidak suka kepadanya, dan ia biasanya paling terkenal disekolah, selain paling terkenal diantara guru2, sebab anak seperti ini terlihat menonjol dan aktif dibanding yang lain.&lt;br /&gt;Ada juga yang pendiam, kutu buku, bahkan biasanya, kalau kita mengenal lebih jauh, yang standar2 aja pun banyak. Maksud standar, yah nda terlalu pintar, dan bodoh juga. &lt;br /&gt;Kalau diklasifikasikan ya pertma, anak yang aktif, biasanya anak yang pintar dan suka bergaul dengan guru dan teman masuk kategori ini. Kedua, anak yang biasa saja, kelompok ini ada biasanya, yang pintar dan pendiam, anak2 yang bergaulnya dengan teman sekelas saja. Ketiga, anak yang tidak terlalu pintar dan tidak aktif, biasanya kelompok ini adalah anak2 yang berasal dari daerah, kesekolah untuk belajar, dan jarang aktif di kegiatan ekstra.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lalu untuk apa mengklasifikasikan teman2 kita?&lt;br /&gt;Aku menulis hanya untuk mengingatkan, di kelompok manakah kita sekarang berada? Dari situ kita bisa interopeksi diri, apa yang harus dilakukan.&lt;br /&gt;Dari semua kelompok itu, semuanya adalah baik dan saling mendukung, dan semuanya memang harus terjadi seperti itu. Yang aku inginkan adalah bisakah kamu membuat model dirimu ini seharusnya menjadi apa?jadi dengan gambaran ini, kita akan memiliki tujuan kita ini akan seperti apa dan seharusnya menjadi seperti apa. &lt;br /&gt;Ini hanya pembukaan, tar tak sambung lebih lanjut, ok, tunggu aja.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6902370813317501743-4407170292112022841?l=bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/feeds/4407170292112022841/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6902370813317501743&amp;postID=4407170292112022841' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/4407170292112022841'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/4407170292112022841'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/2007/03/masa-menuju-dewasa.html' title='Masa menuju dewasa'/><author><name>anurjamansyah</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z237/anurjamansyah/fotobesar.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6902370813317501743.post-5670126181585758832</id><published>2007-03-08T05:20:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-23T12:49:17.205+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pupuk'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bunga'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='arjuna'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tanaman'/><title type='text'>Tips untuk arjuna</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;Tips untuk arjuna-wanita dipersimpangan&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pernahkah merasakan bahwa sang shinta berada dalam persimpangan untuk memilih si arjuna ataukah si rahwana yang menyerupai arjuna. Bagaimanakah dia akan memilih ketika yang ada dihadapannya [yang kasat mata] semuanya sama?&lt;br /&gt;Wanita diibaratkan sebuah tanaman-bunga yang harus dijaga, dipupuk,  dirawat, disiram, dan dibersihkan dari gulma. Siapa yang menghendaki bunganya tumbuh dengan indah perlakuan diatas adalah standart yang harus dilakukan. Kenapa standard karena perlakuan seperti itu sudah bukan merupakan rahasia umum dan&lt;span class="fullpost"&gt;  wajib lagi dilakukan, lalu bagaimana mendapatkan sebuah bunga yang indah, bagus, menarik, sehat dan eksotik? Tentunya perawatan ekstra dan special menjadi triknya. &lt;br /&gt;Lalu satu saat mestilah shinta merasakan kebingungan seperti di atas, manakah yang benar-benar arjuna?bagaimana shinta membedakannya?&lt;br /&gt;Seperti bunga tadi, yang tampak oleh shinta adalah sebuah standart yang ada, mestilah ada touch ekstra dan special yang membedakannya? Itulah kunci bagaimana shinta membedakan manakah yang benar2 arjuna.&lt;br /&gt;So, dapatkah kamu mempelajari sebuah makna dari cerita ini?&lt;br /&gt;Right, mungkin ini sudah ada dibenakmu, namun, jika belum ini adalah reward untukmu, wanita satu saat akan mengalami yang namanya kebimbangan, apakah pasangannya benar2 menyukainya/sungguh2? Atau siapakah yang harus aku pilih diantara 2 (arjuna peny.) ini?; Ini diibaratkan sebuah bunga yang mengalami serangan hujan atau angin yang sangat besar. Lalu apakah yang dilakukan seorang arjuna?&lt;br /&gt;Seperti merawat bunga tadi ada ekstra dan special yang harus dilakukan, dan itu berbeda-beda, apakah dengan merewind, mengingatkan tentang keindahan2 yang pernah dilakukan, dengan spirit, memberikan perhatian bahwa ini adalah hidup yang harus diperjuangkan, dengan support, menyatakan bahwa u not alone, atau I’m always beside u, dengan basics, memberikan ingatan mengapa/apa yang membuat arjuna dan shinta bersatu.&lt;br /&gt;Just that, I perhaps its give u little knowledge and spirit.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6902370813317501743-5670126181585758832?l=bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/feeds/5670126181585758832/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6902370813317501743&amp;postID=5670126181585758832' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/5670126181585758832'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/5670126181585758832'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/2007/03/tips-untuk-arjuna.html' title='Tips untuk arjuna'/><author><name>anurjamansyah</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z237/anurjamansyah/fotobesar.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6902370813317501743.post-762944736237628106</id><published>2007-02-28T12:29:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-23T12:52:20.972+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='informasi wanita'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hobi wanita'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='empati wanita'/><title type='text'>Bagaimana memahami wanita ?</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;seri 1&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Itulah pertanyaan yang sering sekali muncul ketika kita coba berempati pada wanita , seringnya kita tidak memahami wanita , ketika kita sudah peduli pun kita belum memahaminya , sampai sekarang !!! ? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="fullpost"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Memang tidak mudah untuk memahaminya namun ada beberapa tip yang harus kita lakukan-bukan untuk dipikirkan , dari yang kita lakukan itu kita akan evaluasi sehingga kita akan memahami karakter dari wanita . Karakter ini yang akan kita tangkap , sebagai pegangan kita karena itu akan melandasi jalan berprilakunya , bertingkahlaku , sifat emosionalnya dan sebagainya . Intinya adalah bagaimana memahami wanita dengan mencari karakter wanita .&lt;br /&gt;Pertama yang kita coba cari adalah apakah hobi dari wanita tersebut , caranya ? anda lebih tahu bagaimana mendapatkan informasi dari wanita , sebab anda adalah yang paling dekat dengannya , jika tidak mengetahui tanya pada sahabatnya , jika mau lebih valid tanyakan langsung padanya , dengan 1000 komunikasi yang baik tentunya , baik dengan cara berbincang, mengingat masa lalu, atau yang paling terbuka adalah tanya langsung apa hobinya .&lt;br /&gt;Dari hobi tersebut kita coba menangkap karakter dari wanita itu , sebab hobi adalah merupakan suatu kesenangan bagi seseorang, hobi bisa melupakan segalanya , hobi adalah perbuatan yang akan melandasi karakter seseorang .&lt;br /&gt;Sebuah contoh adalah seorang wanita yang suka menyulam , paling tidak kita mengetahui bahwa karakter dari wanita itu adalah penyabar , keibuan , teguh pendirian , mandiri dan sebagainya . Mengapa kita bisa menangkap karakter itu ? sebab dengan &lt;/SPAN&gt;menyulam kita membutuhkan kesabaran , keuletan , waktu yang khusus , dan sangat feminim bukan ?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6902370813317501743-762944736237628106?l=bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/feeds/762944736237628106/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6902370813317501743&amp;postID=762944736237628106' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/762944736237628106'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/762944736237628106'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/2007/02/bagaimana-memahami-wanita_3974.html' title='Bagaimana memahami wanita ?'/><author><name>anurjamansyah</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z237/anurjamansyah/fotobesar.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6902370813317501743.post-496881158978428133</id><published>2007-02-28T12:23:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-23T12:52:41.705+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='konflik'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='reaksi'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='memahami wanita'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='komunikasi'/><title type='text'>Bagaimana memahami wanita ?</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;Seri 2-dari masa lalu&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Seperti tulisan sebelumnya , cara memahami wanita adalah dengan “melihat kebelakang” apa yang pernah terjadi selama ini dengan dia . Maksudnya adalah komunikasi-komunikasi terdahulu dengan dia , mudahnya adalah mengingat konflik yang pernah terjadi , masih ingat bukan ?&lt;span class="fullpost"&gt;  tujuannya adalah kita dapat memahami karakternya ketika menghadapi suatu masalah , apa yang dia lakukan ketika pertama kali mendapatkan masalah tersebut , saya namakan ”the first time-date” maksudnya adalah reaksi pertama ketika dia merasakan konflik tersebut , apakah ia menangis , apakah tetap tenang , apakah dia tegang , apakah dia langsung marah , apakah ia emosional dan sebagainya . &lt;br /&gt;Jika masih tidak menemukan konflik yang terjadi dimasa lalu , coba anda lakukan suatu ”tes masalah” , maksudnya adalah anda membikin suatu masalah namun mengetahui resikonya dan mengetahui harus bagaimana anda menyelesaikan masalah tersebut , jika bisa diselesaikan sendiri , lakukanlah , jika tidak mintalah bantuan orang ketiga yang anda percaya . &lt;br /&gt;Namun jika anda merasa ragu untuk melakukan hal diatas , saya sarankan anda tidak melakukanya . Yang lebih aman lagi ada , yaitu anda memberi kejutan padanya . Anda lihat ekspresinya dari kejutan yang anda berikan . Tentunya tidak sekali , untuk melakukannya dan memahami karakternya . Lakukanlah beberapa kali kejutan , dari situ anda dapat mengetahui karakternya . Mengapa saya sarankan beberapa kali ? Tidak sekali ? karena biar anda tidak terkecoh dengan kesimpulan anda sendiri . Tip kejutan ini tidak akan berarti kalau dilakukan sekali karena itu tidak akan menimbulkan suatu karakter . Namun tidak terlalu sering ya , karena itu akan menimbulkan kebosanan dan kejemuan . &lt;br /&gt;Kesemua tulisan  di atas salah satu cara yang mungkin tidak mewakili semuanya , bagi yang belum menemukan silahkan coba tip sebelumnya atau berikutnya .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6902370813317501743-496881158978428133?l=bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/feeds/496881158978428133/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6902370813317501743&amp;postID=496881158978428133' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/496881158978428133'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/496881158978428133'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/2007/02/bagaimana-memahami-wanita_27.html' title='Bagaimana memahami wanita ?'/><author><name>anurjamansyah</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z237/anurjamansyah/fotobesar.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6902370813317501743.post-7047676392237560019</id><published>2007-02-27T08:01:00.000+07:00</published><updated>2008-01-23T12:52:59.921+07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teman dekat'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='keluarga'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sahabat'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='wanita'/><title type='text'>Bagaimana memahami wanita ?</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;Seri 3- dari orang ke3&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tips ini dapat diketahui dengan anda berkomunikasi dengan orang ketiga , maksudnya adalah anda dapat mengetahui karakter wanita anda dari teman dekatnya , sahabatnya , atau bahkan dari keluarganya . Mengapa tidak? Anda tidak harus malu untuk mengetahui semuanya , karena ada sisi positip dari pertemuan dengan sahabat atau keluarganya , &lt;span class="fullpost"&gt; anda memang mau menikah dengan wanita yang dekat dengan anda ? tapi apakah anda tidak ingin dapat bonus dekat dengan sahabat dan keluarganya . Dengan bertemu dengan mereka hidup anda akan lebih berwarna dan indah, maksudnya adalah baik adanya pertemuan menimbulkan persahabatan , pertengkaran , ketegangan , menurut anda apakah itu tidak mewarnai hidup anda ? coba anda simak bukankah hidup anda lebih berwarna dengan adanya itu .&lt;br /&gt;Jika tulisan diatas itupun sulit anda lakukan , tip yang lain adalah anda dapat berkomunikasi dengan sahabat anda sendiri , anda dapat berdiskusi dengannya . Apa yang harus dibicarakan ?  ada banyak hal yang anda bisa anda tanyakan padanya , tapi yang paling efektip adalah mengetahui perjalanan hidupnya , bagaimana berkomunikasi dengan wanita , berhubungan dengan wanita ? dan sebagainya , karena itu akan menjadi ”guru yang terbaik” buat anda . Anda tidak harus melakukannya bukan ? ambilah pelajaran dari hidupnya , yang baik tentunya anda lakukan yang tidak baik jadikanlah cermin bagi hidup anda . Ok ;) &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bersyukurlah bagi anda yang telah menemukan karakter dari wanita dekat anda , bagi yang belum kita akan coba dengan tulisan ini semoga bermanfaat .&lt;br /&gt;Yang harus anda pahami adalah bahwa laki-laki dan wanita adalah berbeda ? anda sudah tahu tentunya , tapi maksud saya adalah anda benar-benar memahami bahwa anda berbeda dalam sifat , tingkah laku , perlakuan , perbuatan dan jangan coba-coba anda berkeinginan mengubah karakter wanita anda karena anda akan kecewa ? yang anda dapat lakukan adalah berbuat apa yang terbaik anda lakukan karena dengan tanpa disadari dia akan meniru perbuatan anda , ini bukan harapan tapi ini adalah bonus dari karakter yang kadang muncul kadang tidak . Jadi jangan anda harapkan .&lt;br /&gt;Jadi bila tip-tip yang saya berikan tidak ada yang berguna untuk anda saya mohon maaf , karena itulah yang terbaik yang saya dapat berikan untuk anda . Berikanlah kritik dan saran untuk saya karena itu akan berguna untuk saya dan menjadi pelindung dan pembatas saya untuk berbuat baik dan lebih baik lagi .&lt;br /&gt;Thingking b+ (be positif) cause make u happy ?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6902370813317501743-7047676392237560019?l=bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/feeds/7047676392237560019/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6902370813317501743&amp;postID=7047676392237560019' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/7047676392237560019'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6902370813317501743/posts/default/7047676392237560019'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://bepositif-love-indo.blogspot.com/2007/02/bagaimana-memahami-wanita.html' title='Bagaimana memahami wanita ?'/><author><name>anurjamansyah</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z237/anurjamansyah/fotobesar.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
